Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Musical flashbacks.

I headed into L.A. this week to meet up with a dear friend who is gallivanting throughout Southern California while her husband attends an otolaryngology conference in San Diego (feel free to bask in how important I am because I have a friend who is married to an otolaryngologist. You may need to Google otolaryngologist to see what it means. And please don't ask me how to pronounce it). While driving home up and down and all around the Angeles National Forest, the mixture of carsickness and fatigue demanded some seriously peppy music. Something I had not listened to in a long time.

I hesitantly put in "Buffy's Mix 2000" and gave it a listen. Let me explain my hesitance.

2000-2001 really should really be referred to as "the dark years." It was my second year at BYU. Fifteen hours a week were spent at T.G.I. Friday's showing people to their tables, handing them their menus, and explaining that the Jack Daniel's burger didn't actually have any booze in it. I lived in an exceedingly less-than-desirable locale. Three of my five roommates were horrible. One of them was dating the bass player from the now-thankfully-forgotten band Orgy. Another "modeled." I was a microbiology major. My diet consisted of Life cereal, Snelgrove's cookies and cream, and my (righteous) roommate's homemade snickerdoodles. I weighed 50 pounds more than I do today. I listened to a lot of Alanis Morissette. The creepiest guy in the ward was in love with me. I resorted to dating a guy who bleached a skunk stripe into his hair and wore a tiger-striped shirt (because he wasn't as creepy as the creepiest guy in the ward).

Oh, and I bought all my clothes at Shopko.

Indeed, these were dark, dark days.

However, yesterday when I cranked those tunes, I found myself gleefully belting out all the lyrics and dancing in my seat while my son snored away in his car seat. It's funny how even the darkest days don't seem so bad in retrospect. At least that is how it is for me. Maybe there were bright spots in 2000-2001 that I just don't remember. But the music does.




11 comments:

Becca said...

How sad to know that the "darkest" days of your life was the time that you met me...should I feel any personal responsibility for that?!?!?!

buffyvandabailey said...

No, Becca. When I met you, things were starting to look up. ;-)

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Anonymous said...

*Ahem* If I could spell I would have asked if you were at Friday's when Nolan worked there...

buffyvandabailey said...

Molly--I don't think he was there. I worked there for about four months in 2000. Wasn't long. For good reasons.

Kent said...

That's funny, because I started working at Friday's in late April 2001 (I remember training during one of BYU's graduation days), but I don't remember you as a hostess. You probably quit right before finals week, right? You were also lucky that the hostesses didn't need to wear flair and dorky "fun" head wear. And let me guess...you made about 5.50 an hour?

The Terrell Family said...

I can remember Friday's vividly (as the only "decent" restaurant within walking distance from Helaman Halls). I'm glad you've moved onto bigger and better things (like making friends with people who are married to otolaryngologists =). It was so fun to see you and Jack!!!

buffyvandabailey said...

Kent--I quit fall 2000. So we missed each other by about six months. I remember Allan saying you had worked there. When I was there you must have still been on your mission. And, yup, I'm pretty sure I made about $5.50 an hour. Worst. Job. Ever.

jet said...

Although it is almost hard to believe, I am in love with this post. Love it!

Anonymous said...

Buffy, I love you! And we made it through those rough years :)
(But, I managed to repress memories of crazy roommates, and come to think of it, I've repressed ever knowing them at all--thanks for the reminder...) It's nice to know that life gets better as we age :)

Amy & Greg said...

I am giggling. Love it!